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This quarrel between my husband and I finally made me realize that I must trust and understand my significant other.

My name is Li Mei, I am 32 years old and I have been married to my husband Zhang Lei for 5 years. We live in Zhengzhou and have a 3-year-old son, Xiaobao. My husband is my college classmate, and we got married three years after we fell in love.

After the marriage, my husband quit his job and said he wanted to start his own business. Although I was a little worried, I still supported his decision. During those two years, he was busy preparing to start a business, and it was very hard for me to take care of my children alone. Finally, my husband successfully founded a small company, and I thought life would get better. Unexpectedly, after just over a year of working, my husband's company encountered financial problems and had no choice but to close down.

After his business failed, he has been helping me take care of my children at home and has not looked for a job. I could understand it at first, but gradually I began to look down on him.

"Zhang Lei, we need to have a good talk." One day, I mustered up the courage to say to my husband.

"What's the matter, wife?" He smiled and picked up Xiaobao to tease him.

"I want a divorce." I bit my lip and spoke frankly.

The husband was stunned and his face instantly turned pale. Xiaobao screamed in his arms, and he mechanically put the child back on the ground.

"What did you say? Divorce?" My husband looked at me in disbelief.

"Yes." I nodded, "You stay at home all day without working, and this is not the way to go. I've had enough."

"Meimei, how can you say that?" My husband came over and wanted to hold my hand, but I shook him off. "I have been trying my best to reduce the burden on my family."

"You're the one!" I yelled angrily, "You know what it's like to be at home with your children all day long! The neighbors are laughing at me, saying I raise a lazy person!"

"They don't understand me, it's none of my business." My husband still wanted to explain.

"I understand! You just don't take responsibility! You eat soft food all day long!" I interrupted him angrily.

The husband fell silent, lowered his head and said nothing.

"If you want a divorce, just divorce. I'm tired." After a while, he suddenly raised his head and said in a cold tone.

I didn't expect that he would agree so easily, and I suddenly panicked. But then I thought, he was just pretending.

"Okay, then we will officially divorce!" I also pretended to be calm.

"Just leave." Her husband remained expressionless.

"The house and savings must be divided! The children will be raised by me!" I added.

"Just divide it. You have the final say." The husband finally showed some expression, and the corners of his mouth raised slightly, as if he was sneering.

Now I was really anxious and asked loudly: "Why are you laughing? How much money do you have in your savings! Aren't I making money to support my family?"

"I have savings." My husband said calmly.

"Liar! My salary is only enough for basic expenses, how can I still have savings?" I almost laughed out loud at him.

"I saved it from starting a business."

"Don't come here! Where did you get the savings from your failed company?"

"It's up to you whether you believe it or not. Anyway, the money is in the account." My husband also raised his voice.

"Zhang Lei, try lying to me again!"

My husband and I started arguing over each other's words. I'm really angry, how could this person talk such nonsense! It's obvious that the two of them live a poor life, where do they have any savings?

In the midst of our argument, which seemed like it was about to blow off the roof, my husband suddenly stumbled and fell to the ground.

"Husband! Husband!" I panicked and quickly helped him up. But he had already lost consciousness, his face was pale, his eyes were closed tightly, and he was sweating profusely.

"Husband, what's wrong with you? Husband!" I called loudly, but he didn't respond. I held Xiaobao next to him and asked him to call daddy, but my husband still didn't move at all.

I was frightened and quickly called an ambulance. The neighbor's aunt also heard the noise and came to help, and we worked together to move my husband to the sofa. I held my husband's hand tightly, but it was cold and weak.

The ambulance arrived quickly, put my husband in the car and drove quickly to the hospital. I followed Xiaobao in my arms, tears streaming down my face. The scene of the quarrel just now was still vivid in my mind, and I suddenly felt that I had gone too far. My husband is so weak, but I can only talk about money and demand a divorce so ruthlessly.

At the hospital, my husband was pushed to the emergency room. I sat outside and waited anxiously. After a long time, the doctor walked out quickly.

"Doctor, how is my husband?" I asked hurriedly.

"The situation is not optimistic." The doctor said, "Further examination is needed, and it is best to perform surgery immediately."

"Operation? Is the situation so serious?" I clenched my fists nervously.

The doctor nodded and said that my husband may have heart problems due to long-term lack of exercise and too much stress recently. If the operation is not performed as soon as possible, the consequences will be disastrous.

I was very sad to hear that. It turns out that my husband's health is already in such bad shape. It's all my fault. I always lose my temper in front of him and get divorced, which makes him so stressed.

"Doctor, please save my husband! I will find a way to pay for it." I begged the doctor.

The doctor said that the surgery would be expensive and suggested that I make preparations first.

I came home with red eyes and looked everywhere, but life has been really hard recently and I simply can't gather so much money. Just when I was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot, I suddenly remembered the savings my husband mentioned. I quickly opened his computer and checked his bank account.

"How could…he didn't lie!" I was shocked. The number shown on the account far exceeded my imagination.

It turns out that my husband has been quietly saving money for the family, and I always look down on him. Now we can finally afford the medical expenses! I am touched and blame myself at the same time. If I had more trust in my husband, he might not be so sad and sick.

My husband successfully underwent surgery the next day and finally passed the critical period. I stood by his hospital bed and tears suddenly flowed down my face.

"Husband, I'm sorry! I shouldn't have disbelieved you." I held his hand tightly.

"It doesn't matter, I didn't explain it clearly." My husband smiled weakly at me.

"I don't even know how much money you made from starting your business. It's really too much of me to keep saying that you are useless!"

"I don't blame you. I did not fulfill my responsibilities as a husband and father during this time."

"I will definitely believe in you and support you from now on! If we work together, there will be no difficulty that can stop us!" I said excitedly.

The husband nodded, his eyes full of gratitude: "Wife, I'm sorry for making you feel wronged. I will work hard, thank you for your hard work."

"I'm also wrong. I only think about myself and don't take care of you." I burst into tears.

We apologized to each other, confided our regrets and reluctance, as if we had returned to the sweet time of falling in love and getting married.

After this incident, I saw the true meaning of life clearly. I can't just think about myself, but also care about my husband's thoughts and cherish this hard-won marriage. No difficulty can stop us from moving forward together. My husband is also determined to find a stable job after being discharged from the hospital so that he will no longer worry his family.

"Dad!" At this time, Xiaobao ran over excitedly and jumped onto her husband's bed.

"Baby, daddy misses you." The husband picked up Xiaobao and kissed his forehead gently.

I stared at my husband's gentle side face, and my heart was filled with emotion and courage. We will definitely be able to start over, work together, and build a happy home again!

After my husband was discharged from the hospital, I insisted that he rest at home for a while to fully recover his physical strength. During this period, I was always concerned about his physical condition, prepared his favorite dishes, and tried my best to make him worry-free.

My husband is also very grateful for my care. He said that I am the luckiest person in his life. I looked at his increasingly rosy face and regained his strong steps, and my heart was filled with joy and gratitude.

A month later, with my encouragement, my husband began to actively look for a job. At the beginning, some of the units he applied for rejected him on the grounds that he was too old. I knew my husband was frustrated, but I still patiently told him: "It doesn't matter, we are not in a hurry, there will always be suitable opportunities!"

My husband nodded and looked up some recruitment information online. Finally, a start-up company sent him an interview invitation. I accompanied my husband to the interview location and gave him an encouraging hug outside the door. The interview went smoothly and my husband's work experience left a deep impression on the interviewer. Finally, he got the job as he wished.

"Great! I knew you could do it!" On the day I received the acceptance notice, I was so happy that I picked up my husband and spun him around.

"It's all thanks to you, wife!" My husband also smiled from ear to ear.

Since then, my husband has entered a busy working life. I feel relieved because he goes to work and comes home full of energy every day, which makes me feel extremely relieved to see his fulfilled expression.

Although his company has just started, the boss has very strong leadership skills and the team atmosphere is also very good. As a senior employee, my husband is very dedicated and responsible in his work, and has won unanimous praise from his colleagues.

I began to visit my husband’s company regularly, have lunch with him, and sometimes provide homemade snacks or handmade jewelry to the entire team. Everyone praises my craftsmanship, and I feel like I have become part of this big family.

Once, my husband's company was about to launch an important project and entered an intensive preparation stage. For this reason, my husband works overtime and comes home late at night every day. Although I miss him a little, I know that this is very important to his work, so I fully support him and make more supplements at home for him to take to the company.

Finally, through the joint efforts of everyone, the project was successfully launched on the market and received enthusiastic response. The company held a dinner to celebrate, and I was invited to go. When I heard my boss praising my husband’s contribution on the spot, I was very proud of him!

My husband stood up with a glass of wine in hand and expressed his gratitude to everyone. His eyes swept across the audience and finally settled on me: "I would like to express my special thanks to my beloved wife. It is your constant support and encouragement that gives me the motivation to devote myself to my work. Without you, I would not be where I am today. You deserve this honor too!”

I burst into tears and everyone else applauded. I know that we have gone through the wind and rain and finally ushered in the rainbow. We will cherish this hard-won happiness together.

There will inevitably be difficulties on the road of life, but with you by my side, I have nothing to fear. In this blessed life, let us walk hand in hand and experience the next five years together!

Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, my husband has been working in the new company for a full year. He was gradually recognized and promoted by his leaders. He started as an ordinary employee and is now a middle-level manager in the department. I will also invite his leaders and colleagues to my home to thank them for their help and careful cultivation of my husband.

My husband told me that his leader appreciates him very much and plans to promote him to vice president during the year-end appraisal. I was very happy to hear that.

"Husband, you have to work harder, I believe you can do it!"

"With your words of encouragement, I am already full of strength!" My husband said, holding my hand.

For this important assessment, my husband began to work day and night, and would even take a nap in the company's lounge. Although I am worried about his health, I also promise to take good care of myself at home to alleviate his worries.

Finally, the day of assessment came. I woke up very early that day, prepared a nutritious breakfast for my husband, and carefully selected the most formal suit for him.

"Husband, you can definitely do it! Come on!" When he went out, I gave him the firmest encouragement.

In the afternoon, my husband called, and his tone was a bit stiff: "Honey, I may not be able to meet the boss's expectations. It may be difficult to get a salary increase and promotion…"

I knew this was a big blow to him, but I still patiently consoled him: "Don't be nervous, you have done your best, and we will accept the result calmly!"

When I hung up the phone, I was extremely worried. My husband has worked so hard during this period, but he may not get the rewards he deserves. I feel really sad for him.

However, unexpectedly, as luck would have it, when my husband came home late that night, he came to me with a smile on his face:

"Honey, I've been promoted to vice president!"

It turned out that it was my husband who was so stubborn, but in the end the boss took a fancy to his work ability and gave him this promotion opportunity. I happily hugged my husband and danced the tango dance of victory. We laughed and circled in the living room as the curtain call came.

"Husband! Your hard work is worth it! We must celebrate tonight!" I said happily.

"Okay, we haven't dated for a long time!" My husband also smiled.

So we excitedly made a reservation at my husband's favorite French restaurant, and I even put on the little black dress he gave me. During dinner time, we were in high spirits, looking a little tipsy and feeling sweet.

"Cheers, to our greater cause than reaching the top – to spend a life with you hand in hand." My husband raised his red wine to greet me.

"Cheers, to our love that has gone through ups and downs before finally seeing the rainbow." I raised my glass in response.

The happiness and beauty of this moment continues to warm my heart. I know that precious things always require hard work and care. I will always support my husband's career and make him the strongest backing of the family.

In the future, we will continue to work together to weather the storm. On the road of life with you, I will never stop!

In the blink of an eye, my husband has gradually been promoted to the position of a core executive in the company. I also feel that our life is getting better and better and we no longer have to worry about money.

One day, my husband ran home excitedly and said that the company was going to send him to the US headquarters to study for half a year, which was a signal for promotion. I immediately gave him a big hug after hearing this.

"Husband, you must seize this opportunity! Come on!"

"As long as you say this, I will definitely work hard to enrich myself abroad, and then come back and continue to fight!" My husband also said with a smile.

For this trip abroad plan, my husband was busy preparing a lot of things. I also helped him pack his luggage, included our group photos and Xiaobao's paintings, and carefully prepared various documents such as passports and visas.

On the morning of the farewell day, the three of us arrived at the airport happily. I tied an orange scarf on my husband and told him to take good care of his health in the United States and not to work all the time. My husband nodded in agreement and said goodbye to our father and son.

Watching my husband's longing figure disappear from the security check channel, my heart was filled with joy. He can finally realize his aviation dream, and I look forward to his triumphant return!

Every day when my husband is studying and living in the United States is very busy, but also fulfilling and happy. He would share every day’s moments with me on WeChat. At first, he was not used to the schedule and fast pace there, so I patiently chatted with him to help him relieve his homesickness. Later, as he integrated into the new team, my husband had completely adapted to the environment and made many friends.

Half a year passed by in a blink of an eye, and my husband successfully completed his studies and returned to China. The moment we exited the station, my husband picked up Xiaobao and I and spun him around for several times. We both felt the warmth and solidity we had not seen for a long time.

After returning home, my husband kept sharing his experiences in the United States with us. He has obviously gone through a huge transformation. Not only has he become more knowledgeable, but his personality has also become much more cheerful and optimistic.

"Dear, I'm so proud of you! You will definitely become the best talent in the company." I admired from the bottom of my heart.

Sure enough, thanks to this trip abroad, my husband was quickly promoted to vice president and began to lead his own team. He used the management experience he learned to improve department efficiency and also led the development of overseas markets.

One day, my husband excitedly announced that he would lead his team to go abroad for a business negotiation meeting. Once again, I am truly in awe of the passion he puts into his work.

"Husband, everything will go well! Remember to send more photos to tell me about your journey!"

I personally prepared all the documents needed for my husband’s business trip and put him on the plane to go abroad. Watching the plane take off, my heart was filled with pride. Husband, I will always be your strongest support!

He finally completed his one-month business trip successfully and brought back a lot of souvenirs and took photos with us. He happily told me every detail of his business trip, and I listened happily, feeling really proud of how his career was taking off!

Success is hard-won, and I will continue to do my best to support my husband and work with him to create career peaks one after another!

When my husband's career was at its peak, I also began to think about whether to return to work. After all, Xiaobao is already in elementary school, and I have more time to plan my own development.

"Husband, I think I can start looking for a job. Not only can I look after my husband and raise children at home, but I can also contribute to the family." One day at the dinner table, I mustered up the courage to discuss it with my husband.

"You are right, I fully support it!" My husband said without hesitation.

With my husband's strong support, I began to update my resume and submit some positions that interested me. I didn’t receive many interview opportunities at first, but my husband would act as my interview partner every time, listening to me recite my self-introduction and giving suggestions.

Finally, I applied for a marketing position in a clothing company. The company has a very good atmosphere, and the supervisor is willing to train me and help me regain my confidence in my work. My husband would also excitedly ask me about every detail of my work day.

After entering formal work, I worked hard to adapt to the work rhythm and join the new team as soon as possible. My colleagues are very enthusiastic and take the initiative to help me get started with various tasks. After get off work, I will also take the initiative to invite everyone to eat and go shopping together to deepen mutual understanding.

My supervisor saw my potential and got me involved in a major marketing program. This project really tested my organizational and creative abilities, and I was not sure about myself at first. However, thinking of my husband’s instructions, I still tried my best to prepare every step. In the end, our team's promotion achieved the expected results, and the supervisor also specifically praised me by name. I felt extremely honored.

"Husband, I have my first successful project in the company!" I happily shared it with my husband at the dinner table that day.

"I knew you could do it! You see, returning to work is the right choice." My husband is also sincerely happy for me.

Work has allowed me to regain my youthful vitality and confidence, and it has also made me a better guide for my children. I am grateful to my husband for his continued understanding and support, which allows me to pursue my career to my heart's content.

Now, both of us, as husband and wife, are contributing our talents and achieving success in our respective positions. This also enhances mutual understanding and trust between us and makes our relationship deeper. I really want to dance the tango with my husband again to celebrate our joint efforts and achievements!

Life is a long road, and there will be countless five years. In every five years, I hope that we can continue to support each other in pursuing careers and realizing ourselves; then when we look back at the flower field, we will see the success, happiness and sweetness of our side by side business!

There is no difficulty in this world that can defeat us. Because you are by my side, I have the strength in the world! Thank you for making me better and better along the way. I love you and will always love you!