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In most families in China

Raising children is primarily the mother’s responsibility

In fact, if my father is willing to spend more time

The child’s personality will be more sound and excellent

Although there is no man who doesn’t want to be a good father

But do you know how to be a competent father?

Spend more time with your children

Cultivating relationships requires time and energy. If you can stay with your children, play with them, and listen to them, they will remember your love and appreciate your efforts. If you're always busy, no matter what your excuses are, kids will feel neglected.

Lead by example

A good father will show his children what honesty, humility and responsibility are through every little thing, letting them understand that these are the most important qualities in life.

The whole family cooks and eats together

Nowadays, cooking is no longer just the responsibility of mothers. Fathers also need to learn to cook and share the fun with their wives and children. The dining table is also a good place for the whole family to communicate. Children can talk about their lives, and parents can praise them and give advice.

Praise children often

Men tend to be less expressive of emotion, but the truth is that children care about attention and admiration from adults. Show your love for your child more often, even if it's just a hug, a pat on the back, or a kiss on the face.

Mother who respects her child

No matter what your relationship is, you should treat your wife with the respect she deserves. Parents' behavior will have a subtle impact on their children. Seeing parents treat each other like guests, children will also feel recognized and respected. The mutual respect between you and your wife will directly affect your children's future views on mate selection.

Set rules with clear rewards and punishments

One of the misconceptions about modern parenting is that many parents don’t have clear boundaries with their children. Parents should set clear rules for their children with clear rewards and punishments. It not only allows the children to understand that "there is no rule without rules", but also allows the children to feel the deep father's love.

Be a kind and patient teacher

Parents are their children's first and best teachers. From a very young age, you must patiently listen to your children’s ideas and problems, and teach them basic life experiences through daily examples.

reading to children

Books are the best way to stimulate children's imagination. From a very young age, you can read stories to your child. Cultivating their interest in reading can help improve their personality and promote their physical and mental development.

Exclusive parent-child games for dads

Go "crazy" with your kids

Lift high (0 to 3 years old)

Put your hands under your child's armpits and lift him above his head.

I believe all children will like this game.

But mothers with small arm strength may not be interested in "playing" after only one time.

If dad can make his child have fun, I believe the little guy will open his arms for you to hug him when he sees you.

Taking a "plane" (0~3 years old)

Hold the child's chest with one hand and his calf with the other hand, spin in circles or run a few steps, and you will definitely hear the child's crisp laughter.

Or lie on the bed, support the child's abdomen with your feet, grab the child's hands with both hands, and rock back and forth or left and right.

Swinging on the "swing" (0 to 3 years old

Hold the child's ankles with your hands and hold the child upside down.

After he likes this "handstand" action, he can also swing it gently.

This is not only a popular game for children, but it can also train his sense of balance.

Pushing a stroller (3~6 years old)

Hold your child's feet with both hands, place his or her hands on the floor, and crawl with your hands. You can "inspect" together how mom is doing with her housework. You can also teach the "car" to recognize "left" and "right" in the process of commanding the direction of travel.

Fighting (3 to 6 years old)

"Dududu", "tatata", the two sides exchanged fire, each refusing to give in.

Sometimes he wields a gun, sometimes he dances with a stick, and he rushes and kills on the sofa and in the closet until he is sweating profusely and exhausted.

Only dad can do this.

Boxing warm-up (3 to 6 years old)

Roll up the quilt, "hang" the piggy cushion that mom just bought, and let's warm up together before boxing.

Little girls can also play it, just add a little dance beauty.

Double-decker "bus" (3 to 6 years old)

Let the child support his body with all four limbs on his father's back while the father crawls.

Or the child is under the father's body and the two of them crawl together.

It looks like a double-decker bus, and it also exercises children's cooperation and coordination when climbing together.

Repairman (3 to 6 years old)

Mom won't let the toys be opened!

In fact, the little guy just wants to see how it can sing.

Ask dad to prepare screwdrivers, test pens, pliers and other tools, and explore with your children.

There are many more games,

It is also very suitable for fathers and children to play together.

Such as observing bugs, playing with sand,

Go to the countryside to learn how to grow crops, travel by car…

I hope you can play with your children through these

A relaxing and enjoyable game,

Spend wonderful family time

Kind tips.

● When having fun, safety is still the first factor. Power supply, hot water, sharp corners of furniture, etc. are all obstacles that may ruin your plan to be your "first playmate" and must be "cleaned" in advance.

● Your game requires the cooperation of two people, but don't think that your child is your natural partner. You have to train him patiently and don't be impatient. When he is impatient, comfort him and give him confidence. However, letting him learn to accept failure should also be one of the goals of your game.

● Being tired or having no time should not be your excuse. In fact, many games can also help you relax. Remember, laughing with him or her will bring your child closer to you and make you feel younger every day.

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