In Love, Do Women Prefer Mature Boys?

Mature uncles can control their emotions, are not emotional, and have a sufficient sense of responsibility.

It is undeniable that some women like naive men, but in society, mature uncles are more lovable. Mature uncles can control their emotions, are not emotional, and have a sufficient sense of responsibility. So, what are the characteristics of mature uncles?

1. Don’t show all your happiness and anger on your face

In fact, pretending does not mean hypocrisy. It is right to be real when you are close enough to someone, but in social situations or in society, showing your emotions and anger on your face is definitely not something a mature uncle would do.

2. Not stingy with the language of praise

Mature uncles will not be stingy with their praises, especially those close to them. When you are with such people, you will always find that you have many merits and feel happy both physically and mentally. Immature men, on the other hand, will be careful not to see good things in others, and will never praise you casually.

3. Never rate a girl on the roadside

This is not only a sign of immaturity, but also a sign of not knowing how to respect women. What's more, he is still comparing the women he sees with his girlfriend or wife, which is extremely naive and does not know how to respect others.

4. Not explaining past relationship experiences to your lover

Women will say they don’t care about your past and want to know how many relationships you have experienced in the past. But only immature men will talk about their relationship history at this time, and show nostalgic affection when talking about the high points. Take a look at your girlfriend's expression at this time.

5. Don’t be obsessed with a hobby

In fact, whether you are a man or a woman, it is important and good to have your own hobby. But mature uncles allocate their time and know how to spend time on hobbies. Immature people are exactly the opposite. They may forget about food and sleep, squeezing out time with family and loved ones to satisfy their obsession with hobbies.

6. Never fantasize about being with a rich woman

I think there are many men who have had this fantasy. It is sad that a man who was once hailed as a symbol of strength, who was once considered omnipotent, and who once had high hopes, now has such thoughts. Human society has developed to this day, and it has taken a long time to evolve from males to men. Now, men only know how to perform male duties and forget what men should do. This is the tragedy of all men. A mature uncle would never do this!

7. You won’t touch your buddy’s girlfriend or wife

Friends' wives should not be bullied. Even Hong Kong gangland-themed films have mentioned this many times. But in our case, it has evolved into "you are welcome when it comes to your friends' wives." If you want to keep your relationship as a buddy, it's best not to do this kind of thing, it's not good for anyone. Being impulsive can really lead to eternal regrets.

8. Don’t consume blindly

Spend all your money on playing games or buying equipment. Whenever I have time, I will be addicted to online games. When I have money, I will think of buying game devices. I have no time to work hard, let alone fall in love. Moreover, when talking with others, they are full of game plots and secrets for passing levels, which scares girls away.

9. Don’t lose your temper

Personal emotions are completely unconstrained by rational thinking. Some people's reactions may always be a little slow, but your reaction is always on the verge of breaking out. You cannot tolerate others' negative comments about you. For this reason, you can confront them face to face, and your emotions can change instantly. Changes often make others embarrassed and unable to step down. A mature uncle will be gentle and gentle.

10. I won’t quarrel with my girlfriend and always like to reason.

Many men come to ask about tips on how to get along with their girlfriends. In fact, there are two words: coaxing and giving in. Some men just do the opposite and refuse to give in when they quarrel. They insist on talking to their girlfriends about the philosophy of life. It's strange that she can listen to you. Many men can't figure out why they are still dissatisfied with their girlfriends when they have been using practical actions to express their love for them, and she still keeps quarreling all day long.

In fact, it is very simple. A woman is not dissatisfied. On the contrary, she thinks you have done a good job and deliberately angers you when there is nothing wrong to show her love for you. At this time, if a man really quarrels with her, he can only say that you are not He understands the taste of life, but he is immature. If things continue like this, his feelings will really be lost in reasoning.

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Creative Self-introduction

Creative self-introduction (selected 15 articles)

When we come to a strange place, it is necessary for us to introduce ourselves appropriately. Self-introduction is a means of showing ourselves. Never think that self-introduction can be handled casually. The following are creative self-introductions collected by the editor for reference only. Everyone is welcome to read.

Creative self introduction 1

Dear examiners:

I feel very honored to be able to stand here for the interview today and have the opportunity to consult and learn from the examiners. I hope that through this interview I can show myself to everyone, and I hope everyone will remember me. My name is. ,This year. . age. Han nationality, bachelor's degree in law. I usually like to read books and browse information online. My personality is cheerful and easy-going, I can relate to everything around me, I can live in harmony with my family and friends, and I am full of confidence in life. I have interned in *** before, so I have some practical experience. During the four years of studying abroad, I developed a strong character, which enabled me to overcome some difficulties in study and life and become active. Becoming a biology teacher has been my strong desire for many years.

If I have a chance to be hired, I think I will be able to get exercise at work and realize my own value. At the same time, I also realize that the relationship between people and work is based on self-awareness. I think I have the ability and confidence to do this job well. Physical education teacher is a sacred and noble profession. I hope everyone can recognize me and give me this opportunity!

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My name is Lu Keming, do you know? My father once thought of naming me Lu Keyu, but later he changed it to Lu Keming for some reason.

I lacked "gold" in my life, so my father gave me a name with gold characters next to it. The general meaning of my name is: I hope to stand out one day and become "famous".

Many people say that I am very courageous and very much like a boy. Of course, I can be said to be very masculine. I even dare to play with snails and even take them home to raise them. This move may seem courageous to others, but I have my reasons.

Because I think snails are cute and fun, I dare to take them home and raise them. There is a person in our class who likes to study horoscopes. The immortal said that I resemble the description of Aquarius in the horoscope book. That's natural, because I am an Aquarius!

My specialty is painting. I started learning painting in the second grade and am now learning oil painting. But my shortcoming is "slowness".

In the place where I used to study Mathematical Olympiad, after I finished my homework, I often taught others how to do questions that they couldn't do. The teacher said that I taught others well, so my ideal was finally finalized: to be a teacher.

I have been studying in Dongjia Primary School for five years. Since the first grade, I have been very "honored" to receive an "elegant nickname": Carrot. I also forgot who gave me this nickname, maybe the class monitor Xu Shuyang, or it seemed that a particularly naughty boy in the class gave me this nickname.

I once thought about getting rid of this nickname, but failed, so I happily accepted it.

In school, it has always been "I will not offend anyone unless they offend me", as long as someone hits me. Or it disturbs me. Then I will try my best to "pay it back" to him. Of course, if it’s serious, you’ll get it back tenfold.

My favorite star is Dilireba. I know her full name: Dilireba Dilimulati. And she is from Xinjiang.

That's the kind of person I am. I wonder if you are interested in being friends with me?

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I am a fresh graduate of xx University majoring in public relations. I am cheerful and generous, have good etiquette knowledge and reception work experience, have a flexible mind and quick response, and can flexibly handle emergencies at work. I believe that the reception work represents the image of the company. Although the position is ordinary, it is very important. Therefore, to do a good job in reception, you need to have a strong sense of responsibility. I am willing to work hard with the company to jointly support the glory of tomorrow!

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Dear leaders:

Heartily recommend myself to you! My name is Li Lianqing, and I am a junior college student graduating in 20xx majoring in primary education at Putian University. With a sincere heart and persistent pursuit of my career, I sincerely recommend myself to you.

Integrity and hard work are the principles of my life; composure and calmness are my attitude in dealing with problems; my wide range of hobbies make me very fulfilled; my many friends make me feel richer! My strong sense of professionalism and responsibility enable me to face any difficulties and challenges.

As a graduating student, my lack of experience may make you hesitant, but please believe that my energy and hard work will make up for this temporary deficiency. Maybe I am not the best, but I am definitely the hardest working. I believe: hard work will lead to wonderful things!

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I am a very optimistic girl, and I think we should share every happy moment.

When you are happy, you will feel that the sun is so bright, the sky is so blue, and we are so cheerful and energetic. People who pursue happiness are constantly striving and making progress. People who pursue happiness will not be defeated by difficulties. People who pursue happiness will bravely face every challenge… Therefore, under the education of teachers and parents, , I learned how to be grateful, optimistic, and persistent… My greatest trait is persistence. As long as it is the thing and path I choose, I will go on with great determination.

Similarly, I am also a moody, generous, sometimes stubborn, sometimes weak girl. I love learning English, but my grades are a mess, and weird things often appear in my mind. However, I am also very happy to be in contact with nature. I don’t know if this is a contradictory community.

I remember when I was a kid, I was taking a shower, and I suddenly thought, what would be the effect if I combined body wash, soap, and toothpaste? The idea was implemented as soon as it came out. What a coincidence, that day I used Chinese Super Clear toothpaste, the kind that feels cool and cool when I hold it in my mouth. I accidentally added too much, and as a result, I was still chilly after taking a shower, and I felt like I was shivering all over as soon as I stopped.

At home, I am still a relatively well-behaved girl, very obedient, and will not just follow my own temper. Because I understand that it is not easy for our parents to give birth to and raise us, and no matter how busy they are at work, they have to make time to take care of us, so I must not make them angry. Sometimes I do something wrong and I apologize to them without hesitation. I often think: Why do I have to worry so much? Even if my parents do something wrong, I will be very tolerant. After all, my parents did not mean it. My parents are very open-minded, so I want to tell you: thank you for bringing me such an open-minded and superior living condition! I love you all!

In school, I am also a person who listens to the teacher and does not quarrel with my classmates. Listen carefully in class, abide by discipline, play with classmates after class, be harmonious, and never get into fights over trivial matters. The homework is completed on time and the test scores are acceptable. In the eyes of the teacher, he should be regarded as a relatively outstanding student. Of course, I will not treat myself badly. When I am tired, I will run like crazy with my classmates and sweat profusely, but there will be a happy smile on my face.

My hobbies are painting, singing, listening to music, reading, playing piano, etc. My expertise is reading and playing the piano. In my opinion, reading can broaden one's horizons and prevent oneself from being a "frog in a well"; while playing the piano can make oneself "aloof" and free from the fetters of the world… I am a person who chases the sun like a sunflower. Girl, my outlook on life is to be happy every day, and I also hope that I can bring happiness to everyone I know.

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I have a strong desire for knowledge, and this hobby can also be regarded as a fun-loving person. However, once I become deeply interested in something, I will devote myself to it wholeheartedly, forgetting sleep and food. In this case, my tendency to take both long positions would cease to exist. And I can achieve greater success in certain things, and my achievements often occur in this situation.

I act quickly in everything, showing myself to be cheerful, active, eloquent, quick to adapt to all environments, and love to make plans and give orders. In fact, all of this is my challenge to people who are alienated from me in order to overcome loneliness.

My nature is closed. It is the onlookers and outsiders who consider the purpose and results of my actions, which seems to make people feel that I do not have a clear understanding of what I am doing. Although I don't like fantasy, my interests are changeable and have no persistence.

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Hello everyone! My name is Huang Yingxin, I am ten years old and I study in Dongfeng Primary School. I am a quiet little girl.

I have long black hair and like to wear it in a ponytail every day. The round face has a pair of lively eyes. There is also a cherry mouth.

I am sometimes introverted and sometimes very lively. get out of class is over. I like to play with my classmates, such as: playing basketball, jumping rubber bands, painting…

My usual hobbies are: playing basketball, painting, rubber band dancing, singing… Do you like me? If you like it, be friends with me!

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And me! I am a lively and cheerful girl. I am 12 years old, my name is Tang Binglian, and I study in Class 16 [Six] in Chishui.

I have long, beautiful black hair. Whenever my classmates see my long hair, they are all envious, and then I walk proudly among them. There are also "hair on the top, hair on the bottom, and a "black grape" in the middle. Can you guess what it is? Haha, of course it's my big bright eyes!

And I am an impatient girl, don’t you believe it? look:

One day when school was about to end at noon, all the classmates finished their test papers and left one after another. There were only a few of us left. I handed in the test paper early and was just bored and reading in the classroom.

I couldn't help but look back and thought: Why hasn't Shui Wenlin finished yet? There are still so many questions. Alas, school is about to be over. I'd better explain it to her. I was thinking about it, "Tang Binglian, how do you do this question?" A faint voice came from behind me, and I immediately turned around and said, "You can't do that question?" "I…I… I don't know how to do these questions," Shui Wenlin lowered his head and said, his face as red as a ripe apple. When I saw it, my face suddenly turned pale, and I thought: How come she can't do so many questions? How long do I have to teach her? Who cares? I tell her quickly so I can go home.

Just like that, over and over again. More than ten minutes passed, and I didn’t even finish half of the questions. There were beads of sweat as big as beans everywhere on my forehead. Coupled with the hot summer, the anger in my heart surged, so I threw away the chalk. , said loudly: "What's the matter with you? Why can't you do it after telling you for so long? I've written the answer on the blackboard. Why are you still doing it wrong?" Hearing my voice, everyone Turning his gaze to her, tears appeared in her eyes instantly.

I have to say that I was "conquered" by her, and I have to say that I "admire" her.

I am such a girl, impatient but with a sense of justice. I have fantastic ideas and full of expectations for the future.

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Everyone:

I am a fresh graduate of xx University majoring in public relations. I have a cheerful and generous personality. I have good etiquette knowledge and reception work experience. I am flexible and responsive, and can flexibly handle emergencies at work. I believe that the reception work represents the image of the company. Although the position is ordinary, it is very important. Therefore, to do a good job in reception, you need to have a strong sense of responsibility. I am willing to work hard with the company to jointly support the glory of tomorrow! It provides you with comprehensive information on career planning for college students, employment guidance for college students, analysis of college students’ employment situation, career confusion for college students, and employment difficulties for college students. Some articles on this site come from the Internet, and the copyright of all articles belongs to the original author! If your rights have been inadvertently violated, please contact me in time and we will respond as soon as possible! Thanks!

Creative self introduction 10

Friends, do you know me? My name is Zhou Wenyuan. I am 13 years old. I am in the seventh grade at a Portuguese school and the eighth volume at a Chinese school. My eyes are big and bright, my nose is high and straight, my ears are also big, my mouth is just right, not too big or too small, I look good!

I am very serious about everything I do. I don’t even need my mother to wake me up in the morning. I am always on time for school and never arrive late or leave early. I also complete my homework seriously. I am very economical. I will not spend a penny of the pocket money my mother gives me. , put it all into my "little bank" (piggy bank), and when my mother has time to use it, I will take it all out to my mother. I love learning and reading very much. Because a person does not have knowledge without learning to read, and without knowledge, there is nothing. My mother said that knowledge is the greatest wealth. My biggest task now is to study and work hard to learn all kinds of knowledge. I have a good math personality and am one of the best in the class. I am very interested in calligraphy and can write well. Of course, I have to work harder. I love reading books. Books can increase my knowledge and broaden my horizons. Books will always be my teachers and best friends.

Like many boys, I love sports and playing video games. Personally, he forgets everything as soon as he plays games. I remember one time, when I was playing games, my mother called me and told me that I would be back later that day and asked me to cook first, and I agreed. After that, I went to play games again, and I became so fascinated while playing that I forgot about everything. The beating didn't stop until my mother came back. She asked, "Has your rice been cooked?" Then I remembered that I didn't cook. As a result, everyone has no food to eat.

I am very introverted and don't like to take the initiative to say hello to others. My mother taught me many times, but I am still the same as before.

In the future, I must read more books, learn more knowledge, and get rid of these bad habits, so that my mother can rest assured and everyone will love me.

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Hello everyone! My name is Zhou Yijian. I have a dream that I want to be a pilot, so I also like sky blue and silver white, which represent that I want to fly into the sky. I am 1.45cm tall and an introvert, so I like to play ball. Of course, I like Yao Ming the most, the classic among anime classics! I enjoy swimming in the ocean of balls, and I hope to make friends with you who have the same hobbies as me.

I have a wide range of hobbies and my biggest advantage is that I am willing to help others. I am a typical hot-tempered person. If any of you have difficulties in the future, as long as I can help you, just say it, I will definitely be there! Gudao Rechang is a perfect name. I am a very easy person to get along with and you will get to know me gradually. hehe. I like winter the most. Isn’t there any special reason? Autumn is too sad, summer is too passionate, and spring is too mild. Winter is the best. Between the four, it can make people calm and make people happy. People reminisce. . I like the proud plum blossoms in winter the most. Their tenacious and unyielding quality is the goal of my study. I like the persistence of snowflakes the most, and they move forward bravely to reach their destination.

By the way, my favorite food is snacks. Her craftsmanship is very good. The food she makes makes my stomach full and my mouth full of flavor. This is me, a happy boy, a boy who is willing to help others. Today, I stood among my classmates. Like all the students here, I am eager to spread my wings and fly high, and to have a better future!

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Hello, everyone, my name is xxx, my daughter is 16 years old.

I have a lot of little problems. God knows we will be closely intertwined by fate.

Okay, just admit it, we are destined to be friends!

"Do things with a high profile and be a low-key person" is my life principle.

So sometimes I am a little pretentious, and I hope everyone will take care of me.

As a little girl, I have a lively and cheerful personality (a common characteristic of humorous children), I have a wide range of hobbies and like to make friends.

Three years is neither long nor short. We will see each other's decline or progress.

Okay, I won’t go into details anymore, but in a nutshell – (pause here) If you don’t fight now, then you will fight.

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Sales profit is always the behavioral goal in commercial economic activities. Without sufficient profits, enterprises cannot continue to survive. Without sufficient profits, enterprises cannot continue to expand and develop. –Inscription

Over the past few years, whether it is a price war between domestic pharmaceutical companies or a promotion war between foreign pharmaceutical companies, in short, in order to gain more shares in the attractive pie of the pharmaceutical market, State-owned enterprises, private enterprises, and foreign enterprises have all tried their best to avoid falling behind in the slightest. This phenomenon has caused competition in the entire market to escalate again and again in mutual comparison. In order to maintain an invincible position in this fierce competition and maximize benefits, in my opinion, the following two points must be achieved:

One is open source. Strive to increase the market share of products and increase market share. This requires a complete and practical marketing planning plan. Including clarifying product advantages, segmenting target markets, selecting communication strategies, and determining channel strategies. All of this requires a person with rich marketing knowledge and keen ability to capture market information to complete. After three years of study and life, I not only learned a wealth of medical and marketing knowledge, but also developed my keen market analysis, good communication and persuasiveness, good teamwork skills, clear and thoughtful thinking, and the ability to work efficiently under work pressure. Efficiency, hard work and hard work. I can quickly adapt to business processes and actively engage in the sales work that I love.

The second is to reduce expenditure. If an enterprise wants to increase revenue and reduce expenditure, it must start with management. According to its own situation, it should establish a scientific and complete personnel recruitment management system, corporate material application and requisition management system, and office operation behavioral norms. In today's rapid economic development, have you noticed the use of tax to reduce unnecessary losses? You can apply for the "investment credit for purchasing domestic equipment" policy, which means that the equipment payment can be offset against profits and you will pay less corporate income tax. If you have debts owed to you by others that you have been unable to collect for many years, or have been declared bankrupt by the court, you can apply for "bad debt losses" from the tax authorities, and use this long-term "debt" to offset your total profits. Pay less corporate income tax. I studied by myself and passed the accounting major of Shandong University of Economics, and mastered certain auditing, taxation and financial knowledge. I can effectively and consciously use national fiscal and taxation policies to save every cent of cost for enterprises.

I am confident that my joining will bring great achievements to the company! It will create more profits!

I will take the lead immediately and you will take the lead immediately! ! !

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General Chen Yi introduced himself at a welcome meeting: [My name is Chen Yi, with Chen Er and perseverance. Just now, the master of ceremonies called me a general. I really don’t dare to call me a general. I am not a general yet. Of course, you can call me a general. I am a general. The common people across the country have entrusted them to "checkmate" the "army" of the Japanese devils. This will be done until they are "checkmate". 】

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Escape Room: Find An Exit From Real Life | Cover

The door that can be opened by answering questions, cracking passwords, operating mechanisms, etc. is the exit of the secret room, and the secret room is the exit of real life.

Text✎Han Molin

Editor✎Bu Changjiong

In a deep dark room, darkness has weight. The soundtrack of the movie "Westward Journey" floated here and there, interspersed with the ding-dong sound of the electronic clock. Their time is running out, only 20 minutes left. He knocked on the surrounding walls. There was no mezzanine, the room was empty, and there was no other way out. For another 10 minutes, they wandered, groped, and looked around. Another 5 minutes passed.

In the live escape room venue on Shangcheng Road in Shanghai, a game themed "Westward Journey" is about to come to an end. According to the rules, the player Lu Chengrui and the girl traveling with him must find the unlocking methods of four rooms within an hour and a half and "return to the world."

The real-life escape room game that gave Lu and Chengrui pause was designed in 2006 and originally came from a few programmers from a company in Silicon Valley. They are avid fans of Agatha Christie's novels, and based on the novel's plot, they built a game scene in reality. Employees can solve puzzles and pass levels after work, but it is very difficult and few people can break through. The extremely challenging and entertaining nature makes it attract countless imitators in a short period of time.

Around 2011, escape room games became popular in China, and were initially popular in big cities such as Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Xiamen. Today, as a new form of entertainment, it has penetrated into more than 40 cities in China. According to incomplete statistics, there are more than 200 in Beijing alone. Almost all of them are fully booked on weekends. Most of the players are young people in their 20s. Popular scenes require reservations and even an afternoon wait.

“It’s getting more and more expensive, and it’s almost unaffordable.”

Pan Tianhu, who is engaged in escape room design, told BlogWorld that compared with Europe and the United States, escape room games transplanted to China have generally lowered the difficulty level, allowing half of the players to successfully break out. However, they focus more on designing a thrilling atmosphere and make extensive use of haunted house elements. Their 2016 market questionnaire showed that the concentrated fear and pleasure of escape in cramped areas will be regarded by urbanites as a favorite way to relieve stress.

▵March 25, 2013, Taiyuan, real-person escape room game

Pan Tianhu once designed a theme related to Journey to the West. The key to one of the levels was hidden in a monster killed by Sun Wukong. Players had to use a toy gun to break the binding rope so that the plastic monster could fall from the ceiling. Due to insufficient budget, the monster's facial features were not clear. In order to create an effect, they dressed it in blood clothes and specifically studied how the distribution shape of blood drops could make it more scary.

Pan Tianhu once lurked in the monitoring room to observe players' expressions when they saw such props, watching them scream, jump to the side, accidentally slip, or hug lovers. He felt that at that moment he was an emotional magician. "Am I a bit perverted?" He laughed.

This is the level that trapped Lu Chengrui. There was no light source, so they used a laser pointer to illuminate, and found that the subtle light outlined the four walls with ferocious shapes, all of which were monsters. In a strange atmosphere, the girl approached him. Without looking away, the two were convinced that the clues might come from the drawings.

Suddenly, a sharp inspiration flashed through his mind, and Lu Chengrui discovered that the eyes of those monsters were looking in the same direction.

It's an inconspicuous area on the upper right side of the wall. Under the illumination of dark purple light, the hidden writings appeared on the wall, but they could not be seen clearly. There are bumps on the wall, obviously for people to climb on. Lu Chengrui climbed up with the laser pointer between his teeth.

"There was once a true love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it. I didn't regret it until I lost it. The most painful thing in the world is this. If…I will definitely…" This is "Westward Journey" Lu Chengrui and the girl were both familiar with the most famous line, but he found that the last "I love you for ten thousand years" disappeared, and a colon hung alone at the end.

"Ten thousand years of disappearance?" Lu Chengrui jumped into the air. Two people looking at each other, or "I'll love you for ten thousand years"? They were wondering what the missing words meant. There is no result, time is up in a blink of an eye. The door of the house was opened by the staff, and they returned to the "human world". The sunlight poured in. They were a little depressed, but still excited. The consultant explained to them the rules, voice-activated locks, and the code word was the "ten thousand years" that disappeared. As for the way to interpret the code word, it was ignored by the two of them in their file bags.

This was Lu Chengrui's first time playing a secret room. It was in 2013, just after the college entrance examination. Every day when he goes home, he passes by the building where the secret room is located on Shopping Mall Road. When the poster was first posted, he thought it was a new online game being promoted by the Internet cafe on the first floor. Later, the leaflets distributed by the secret room promoters caught his footsteps. Lu Chengrui has a natural affinity for the word "Chamber of Secrets" – largely due to the complete set of Agatha Christie and Quinn on his desk. Even the "Love You for Ten Thousand Years" in the game was a surprising start for him. He thought it was a wonderful coincidence. He liked this girl. After the college entrance examination, Lu Chengrui plucked up the courage to ask her on a date for the first time.

Life is not easy to pass, and of course he and the girl are not together. But he later became deeply attached to the game. He went to college from Shanghai to Beijing, and with little living expenses, he visited almost all the escape rooms in the city. He is not interested in the corresponding app games at all and thinks they are "not exciting and not cool".

"(Perhaps) one day I have to play mobile games." He said, his eyebrows bunched up. "This thing (escape rooms) is getting more and more expensive, and I can't afford it anymore."

The building that hosted his first surprise encounter gradually moved away from his sight as he grew up, but the emotion it gave Lu Chengrui was a secret code that only lovers can understand.

exit

The rules of the escape room game are very simple: in a closed room, find the key and password, and then open the door. How to find it? Lu Chengrui said: "It's all a routine."

Domestic escape room scenes are heavily imitated. If players are fans of mystery novels, they will find that the hiding methods are familiar; if a person has played 10 four-star escape rooms, he will also find that they are a pattern running through them. For example, when you see a mirror, you know it must be a light-controlled mechanism; when you see a flashlight, you know it will illuminate something somewhere – of course, you need to adjust the switch several times, and the color of the light will be different. no the same.

"Have you ever encountered this situation if you have tried all modes and still can't open the door?"

"Yes, but later I found out that the lock was too broken, and I had to kick the door to open it." Lu Chengrui's lips raised a hint of arrogance.

Since the settings, mechanisms, props, etc. are all copied from each other, Lu Chengrui said that for an escape room enthusiast, the progression from "player" to "senior player" is almost as fast as cheating.

In fact, the buildings with escape room venues in every city are very similar in appearance. Most of them are older LOFT apartments, or have a layout that can be easily opened between the two floors, which is suitable for getting into the sky and the earth, and the property management is not easy. Too strict, or simply in a state of relaxation, so that mechanized transformation and various wire-embedding projects can be started without any scruples. Generally speaking, there will never be only one escape room venue in a building. More than a dozen are the norm. The staff at the gate are rushing to advertise and attract customers. Competition will be very concentrated in a small area.

An escape room agency has an average monthly income of 10,000 to 30,000 yuan. Considering the huge initial investment of hundreds of thousands of yuan (depending on the degree of mechanization) and rent, it is not easy to make a profit. This does not include the mutual suppression of the entire industry caused by plagiarism, as well as the difficulties that a niche industry will inevitably face when it breaks through. "Decoration companies all claim to be able to do escape room scenes." Pan Tianhu said, "But you are a novice. If you believe it, you are finished."

He has been responsible for several times as a supervisor, and found that many decoration teams treat the organs as decorations, neglect the sensitivity test, or simply cannot understand the drawings and make wrong positions. "The game experience problems caused by this are fatal. ". But word of mouth is the only thing they can rely on in the fierce competition in the industry.

I also think of ideas, write drawings, and eat late at night. "Especially, you know in your heart that every time you come up with an idea, it will be copied away." Pan Tianhu said, thinking of these, only strong wine can soothe his sorrow.

In Lu Chengrui's eyes, in addition to recreation and entertainment, the secret room also has a function, which is to "bring friends to show off their high IQ." He smiled: "So you failed the math test because you were careless, not because you were stupid. That's what your companions think anyway."

Because of this, in this field, the mentality of worshiping foreign countries is reasonable. There was once a fan who had watched real-life secret rooms all over the city. When he was on a business trip in Hong Kong, he was frustrated and stuck in the second level. Unwilling to fight against the trapped beast, she spent her bonus from the business trip.

As for the legendary "levels that even senior engineers cannot get through" in Silicon Valley, the birthplace of the legend, Lu Chengrui said that he often falls into fantasy, wondering what it would be like, and thinking about the moment he escapes, he wonders how excited he will be.

In his opinion, escape rooms are both a game and an outlet to relieve stress. Born in 1995, he was a good boy. He wanted to study criminal investigation, but he still studied finance. He might go to a bank in the future. "In life, there will always be troubles and helplessness that you can't tell anyone. But if you escape from the darkness, you are the hero who cannot be restrained by the darkness."

Pan Tianhu, an engineering student, has similar feelings: "Life is a bigger adventure. You will encounter difficulties one after another, which are more difficult to solve than the most complex password. The important thing is that even if you solve it, you can't see it." When you reach the exit, you can't experience the joy, relief, and sense of accomplishment when light pierces the darkness in an instant. But in the secret room, as long as you are smart and sharp enough, you can quickly obtain them."

"Process is meaning"

As for the competition in the domestic escape room market to use horror elements without intellectual content, Pan Tianhu believes that it is related to survival. "At least now, all surveys show that people like this."

This is an industry in its infancy, and every step of development is marked by realistic helplessness. Lu Chengrui said that in the past, he would write secret room strategies on some forums. "It's just for fun, to show off your IQ." Later, several secret room operators who followed the trail found him and explained to him that such spoilers might reduce the fun of the game and reduce customer flow. Lu Chengrui had no choice but to apologize, delete the post, and never wrote a similar article again.

Whether online or offline, escape rooms are a very niche game. The store seems to be packed with customers, but most people just have a taste of it. There is currently no platform for players to communicate and connect. Even CHINA EGA, which is the prototype of an industry alliance, has only a few participants and its webpage is empty and lonely. However, no matter how niche a game is, there is always a group of ardent fans. When he was in college, Lu Chengrui met several enthusiasts in his class and club, and formed a team named: Movie Players. Fight together in the capital.

Wang Qianhui is Lu Chengrui's best teammate, fast, accurate and ruthless. Lu Chengrui said: "I am a fast character, and he is a ruthless character. His ruthlessness comes from the ultra-precise execution of movements, from raising and lowering the knife. You must believe in the results of his operations and will not think about verifying the idea again. .”

Wang Qianhui believes that the most important element in breaking into a secret room is not individual intelligence, but cooperation. This does not refer to the roughest kind of coordination – one person presses the switch while another person opens the door, just like a team cannot give every player a chance to have a wonderful shot. In a team that usually consists of 4 to In a secret room team of 6 people, the commander and the executor must work together to maximize time efficiency. The team needs inspiration outputters and people who sit in the corner and decode silently.

Pan Tianhu, who often hangs out in the control room, said that the kind of team that will fail at first glance is the kind of people who argue endlessly about every word and jump with excitement when they think of anything.

Wang Qianhui is used to being the executor. He is 3 years older than Lu Chengrui and majors in Chinese as a foreign language. In the school where he interned, he always played the leading role, quoted classics, talked endlessly, and loved the pleasure of the audience's eyes on him. But in the secret room, he was willing to play a supporting role, silently digesting his teammates' ideas. He enjoyed both roles.

The most unforgettable secret room scene in Wang Qianhui's memory is "Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea". It is very original. The key needs the buoyancy of water to hold it up, but the water tank is far away and the connecting pipe is mysterious. They racked their brains but couldn't get it, so they had to cheat and build a human wall by holding their shoulders to reach for the key. In the process of finding a position, they accidentally stepped on the right pipe knob, water sprayed out, and they both slipped.

The boys had water all over their heads and faces, but they sang happily.

"Why is it that the most memorable scenes for both of you are defeats?"

"Because the process is the meaning." Lu Chengrui replied.

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It Is True That More Men Than Women Like Heavy Tastes, But This Does Not Mean That Women Do Not Have This Hobby

We always think of many sexual fantasies with heavy tastes as "minority behavior." In the past, "heavy taste hobbies" such as voyeurism, fetishism, and SM were called sexual perversions or "sexual perversions." Later, medicine and psychology Learn to make progress and change it to "abnormal". A research article published in The Journal of Sex said that in fact, ordinary people often have such heavy sexual hobbies. Half of the people have such sexual fantasies, and one-third have already acted on them. practice.

This study surveyed 1,040 Canadians, and the results show that "abnormal sexual hobbies" may be far more than you think. Among the several abnormal sexual fetishes listed by psychiatrists, such as voyeurism, exhibitionism, tactile fetishism, masochism, sadism, fetishism and transvestism, there are four common sexual fetishes Extremely common.

Joyal, the study's lead researcher, said these alternative sexual fetishes are more common than we think, not just in sexual fantasies, but many people actually do them. The most common sexual fantasy was voyeurism, with 35% of the men and women surveyed admitting they enjoyed doing it. More than a quarter of people (26%) are fetishists, 26% tend to be tactile addicts, and 19% are masochists. Pain can trigger pleasure.

The primary purpose of this study was to identify normal sexual desires and experiences in a representative sample. The results of the study show that nearly half of the people (45.6%) have at least one of what we usually think of as abnormal sexual fantasies, and 33% of people have done so at least once. The study also showed that more men than women do like heavy flavors, but this does not mean that women do not have this hobby.

An Essay About Loving Children——"My Plan For The New Semester"

A plan is like a bridge between where we are now and where you want to be. Likewise, plans are the bridge between goals and objectives, and between goals and actions.

The new semester has arrived, and the teacher assigned the children a task to make their own plans for the new semester. It is hoped that children can better arrange their study time, clarify their goals for progress, and plan their own development direction by making plans. In this way, we can achieve the purpose of cultivating children's good learning and living habits, and form a good growth atmosphere that combines self-supervision and teacher supervision.

So, what plans have the children made?

"1. I have to study hard and study again."

"2. I have to do my own job and the work of the student union"

"3. I want to make many new friends"

"4. I want to learn many hobbies, such as singing, dancing, piano, etc."

"5. I want to learn to be a good person"

… …

It seems that the plans made by children in the new semester are not limited to study, but cover all aspects of study, life, hobbies, etc. I believe that children's study and life in this semester will be rich and colorful.

In addition, he also wrote about his favorite teachers: Teacher Yang, Teacher Lu, Brother Zhang (physical education and life teacher) and Aunt Zhang (life teacher).

In the eyes of children, Teacher Yang is kind-hearted and even more beautiful. Although she is sometimes very strict in learning, she is very gentle in life. There is also "Brother Zhang" who is responsible for life management. He handles things very fairly and is deeply trusted by the children.

Forewarned is forearmed, without prejudging the waste. It is easier to achieve good results if you have a plan for anything. Children are expected to be able to not only make plans but also follow through on them. Therefore, you can study with peace of mind when you should study, and have fun when you play. Over time, all of these will form conscious actions and become good behavioral habits that will last a lifetime.

Beijing Guangai School (Dawa Village, South Faxin Town, Shunyi, Beijing)

Anhui Guangai School (Huangji Village, Gubei Town, Jinzhai County, Anhui)

Longing for the power of love!

The Role Of Career Ideals (Lesson 4)

1. The role of professional ideals Teaching objectives: Teaching objectives: 1. Master the characteristics of professional ideals and their role in students’ life development. 2. Understand the role of professional ideals on social development and how to realize professional ideals. 3. Learn to analyze the lack or existing problems of your own career ideals based on the individual. Teaching focus: Teaching focus: The role of career ideals in life development Difficulty: Difficulty: Career planning and realization of career ideals Navigation of the mind: Navigation of the mind: 1. What was Yang Jianhua’s ideal when he first became a riveter? What was Yang Jianhua’s ideal when he first became a riveter? 2. What is Yang Jianhua’s motto? What is Yang Jianhua's motto? 3. What is the new ideal? , What is the new ideal? 4. Why did he refuse to be the workshop director? , Why did he refuse to be the workshop director?Read P17 Case Stories Case Stories [Life Enlightenment] As a front-line worker, as long as you stick to your job, you will not be a front-line worker.

2. As long as people are based on their positions, constantly improve their own quality and abilities, strive to overcome technical difficulties, improve their own quality and abilities, and strive to overcome technical difficulties, they will create economic and social benefits. , brings honor to individuals and collectives, demonstrates the power of Chinese workers, brings honor to individuals and collectives, and demonstrates the power of Chinese workers. The power of people. 1. The role of career ideals in life development 1. Career ideals are personal yearnings and pursuits for future careers. Ideals are people’s well-founded and reasonable imaginations and hopes for future things. It is like a beacon on the road of life, pointing out the direction for our future. The prime secondary vocational students should have beautiful life ideals. Is judgment a career aspiration? Is judgment a career aspiration? 1. Xiao Liu’s ideal is to earn enough money to travel around the world. (, Xiao Liu’s ideal is to earn enough money to travel around the world. () 2. Xiao Zhao works in accounting, and he hopes that he can become one.

3. His major is accounting work, and he hopes that he can become a volunteer who devotes love. (A dedicated volunteer. ( ) 3. From the day he joined the army, Xiao Wang determined to be a general. From the day he joined the army, Xiao Wang determined to be a general. ( ) 4. Li has a hobby of photography , becoming a professional photographer is his and Li’s hobby of photography, and becoming a professional photographer is his ideal. (’s ideal.) 5. Xiao Wang works at a construction site, and his ideal is to pass the self-study exam, Xiao Wang works at a construction site. His ideal is to pass the self-study examination and obtain a university diploma. (Exam, obtain a university diploma. ( ) [Link] 2. Characteristics of professional ideals:, Characteristics of professional ideals: 1. Sociality Sociality Pass One's own profession fulfills its obligations to society, and each profession has its own unique social responsibilities. Through one's own profession, one fulfills one's obligations to society, and each profession has its own unique social responsibilities.

4. Have some social responsibility. Analyze what are the obligations and responsibilities of the following professions to society? Analyze what are the obligations and responsibilities of the following professions to society? Teacher, doctor, salesperson, driver, construction worker, sanitation worker, policeman, civil servant, agriculture, teacher, doctor, salesperson, driver, construction worker, sanitation worker, policeman, civil servant, agriculture, transportation industry, accountant, financial planner, housekeeping Waiter and so on. Transportation, accountants, financial planners, domestic helpers, and more. 2. Contemporary nature. The division of labor in society and changes in occupations are the decisive factors that affect a person's career ideals. Timeliness of life. The division of labor in society and changes in occupations are the decisive factors that affect a person's career ideals.Depending on the level of productivity development and the depth and breadth of social practice, people’s career pursuit goals will also be different, because

5. Career ideal, which is always a certain mode of production and the occupational status and professional prestige it creates. Different career ideals, which are always a certain mode of production and the occupational status and professional prestige it creates, are in a person’s mind. reflection. reflection in a person's mind. 3. Developmental. The content of a person's career ideals will change from time to time, place and situation. Developmental sex with age. The content of a person's career ideals will change from time to time, place and situation. With the growth of age, the enhancement of social experience and the improvement of knowledge level, career ideals will change from hazy to clear, from fantasy to fantasy. Gain reason and change from fluctuation to stability. Therefore, career ideals have a certain degree of development. Become rational and change from fluctuation to stability. Therefore, career ideals have a certain degree of development. 4. Individual differences. Careers are diverse,

6. What kind of career a person chooses depends on his ideological and moral character and individual differences. Occupations are diverse. What kind of occupation a person chooses has a great relationship with his ideological and moral character, knowledge structure, ability level, interests and hobbies. Political and ideological consciousness, moral cultivation level, knowledge structure, ability level, interests and hobbies are all closely related. Political and ideological consciousness, moral cultivation level and outlook on life determine a person's career ideal direction. Knowledge structure and ability level determine a person's outlook on life determines a person's career ideal direction. Knowledge structure and ability level determine the level of a person's pursuit of career ideals, personal interests, hobbies, temperament, personality and other non-intellectual factors as well as gender characteristics, the level of career ideal pursuit, personal interests, hobbies, temperament, personality and other non-intellectual factors as well as gender Physical characteristics such as traits and physical condition also influence a person’s career choice.Physiological characteristics such as physical condition also affect a person’s

7. Personal career choice. 3. Career ideals as motivation for struggle Xu Zhenchao’s deeds: He is a crane driver at Qingdao Port. A very ordinary job. The crane driver has a very monotonous job: lifting goods from the dock to cars and ships, or from trains and ships to the dock. 30 Spring and Autumn passed quietly like this. However, people say that for the past 30 years, what has flowed out from this ordinary operating platform he has been adhering to is not monotonous notes, but gorgeous movements. Xu Zhenchao, a man who broke the world container handling record twice in one year. "You can't just use your strength to work, but also use your brain; if you want to do something, you must love it and be good at it." Xu Zhenchao is pursuing himself in his ordinary job. Lessing said: "The slowest person can walk faster than an aimless person as long as he does not lose his goal." 2. The role of career ideals in social development 1. High-quality labor with clear career ideals Quality workers are the driving force of social development 2

8. Professional ideals are the basis for realizing social ideals. Social ideals refer to people’s pursuit, yearning, and imagination of future social systems, politics, and economic structures. They are the ideals of society. The pursuit, yearning and imagination of the structure of reality and its development are the hope and longing for social reality and its development. Hope and longing. The relationship between professional ideals and social ideals complements and influences each other. Professional ideals are the basis for realizing social ideals. Based on the following examples, summarize personal professional ideals. Based on the following examples, summarize the role of personal professional ideals on social development? Want to play a role in social development? Example 1 1 Martyr Xia Minghan wrote furiously in front of the enemy's butcher knife: "Beheading does not matter, as long as the principle is true, kill Xia Minghan, and the people who will come after him." This heroic spirit of generous sacrifice comes from his highest ideal of China important force for the success of the revolution.Yes

9. An important force for the success of the Chinese revolution. Example 2 2 Mr. Lu Xun studied medicine in Japan in his youth and was also very interested in art. Faced with the aggression of Japanese imperialism and the broken state of the country's mountains and rivers, he felt that arousing people's consciousness was more important than healing people's bodies. From then on, he gave up medicine and turned to literature, picked up the fighting pen, declared war on imperialism, feudalism, and bureaucratic capitalism, and became a great proletarian revolutionary writer in China. He made great contributions to overthrowing the three mountains and establishing a new China. The people's awakening increases their revolutionary consciousness. Let the Chinese people awaken and increase their revolutionary consciousness. [Think about it] Xia Minghan and Lu Xun in the above examples both combined their professional ideals with social ideals during the revolutionary period of our country and worked hard to realize a new socialist China. In a period of peace-building, how can we effectively combine our professional ideals and social ideals? How to reflect our patriotism?

10. Example 3 3 my country's famous bridge expert Mao Yisheng has been studious and motivated since he was a child, and is good at thinking. When he was 11 years old, he saw the tragic scene of a bridge collapsing and killing people during the Dragon Boat Festival competition in his hometown in his hometown, and he secretly determined that he would learn to build bridges when he grew up. From then on, he paid attention to and observed bridges everywhere. At the age of 15, he was admitted to Tangshan Road and Mine School with excellent results. In five years, he recorded 200 notebooks, about 9 million words, stacked together as tall as a person. After he completed his studies, he built bridges for the people. In 1937, he presided over the design and construction of the Qiantang River Railway and Highway Bridge, the first modern bridge in the history of Chinese bridge architecture. Mao Yisheng's name, along with many newly built bridges in our country, will always remain in the motherland north and south. He realized his personal career ideals and his ambition to benefit the people and promoted the development of China's economic construction. It benefits the people and promotes the development of China's economic construction.3. Career planning and career management

11. Realization of ideas 3. Career planning and realization of career ideals 1. Only pragmatic planning can turn ideals into reality. Let’s talk about it. Let’s complete a quick-answer question: (just give an example) We will complete a quick-answer question: ( Just give examples) (1) What occupations should myopia patients not engage in? (2) What occupations should people with inaccurate pronunciation not engage in? (3) Which occupations should not be engaged in by those with inflexible fingers? (4) Which occupations should not be engaged in by persons with a height of less than 1.50 meters? 2. The process of planning is the process of improving yourself. If you choose the following profession, how will you do your job well? If you choose the following profession, how will you do your job well? A If you are a salesperson, how do you plan to do your job well? BIf you are a policeman, how do you plan to do your job well? C If you are a nurse, how do you plan to do your job well? D If you are a teacher, you play

12. How do you do your job well? Read the story and share your thoughts. Read the story and express your thoughts. I have read a foreign story. A teacher asked the students in class what their ideals were. Some students readily expressed their ideals, some said they wanted to be government officials, some wanted to be doctors, and some students were not sure what their ideals were. One day many years later, they would become the elderly. When a teacher was cleaning the house, he discovered the ideals written by the students he taught before World War II. Now it was very interesting to see the ideals written by them, so the old man thought why not re-send the compositions to them so that they could take a look at themselves. What about your childhood ideals? So I published the news in the newspaper, and a few days later all the essays were taken away.But most people's ideals were not realized, but only one essay was not received. A few days later, the old man received a call from a leader in the White House. He said that the author of the essay was himself. The old man asked why.

13. Why don’t you take away the composition? The leader said that it was not necessary because he had fulfilled his ideal. He had remembered his ideal for so many years, so he realized his ideal. Discuss the following issues one by one and talk about what conditions are needed to realize your career ideals? Discuss the following questions and what conditions are needed to realize your career ideals? 1 Some students think that if I plan to engage in art work in the future, I only need to learn art well, and other subjects are irrelevant. What do you think? 2 The singer Li Shuangjiang received two admission notices when he entered school, one from the Conservatory of Music and one from the Medical College. He chose the Conservatory of Music based on his own strengths and eventually became a famous singer. What inspiration does this story give you? 3 National model worker Li Suli is a conductor. Someone once offered her a cushy job in a government department, but she politely declined. In the end, she achieved extraordinary results in her position as a conductor. If it were you, would you go to work in the government department? Why? 4 Edison once worked as a newsboy, and Gorky never even entered school, but they have both achieved extraordinary achievements. If you are not satisfied with your job from the beginning, will you still struggle like them? Why? Classroom Summary Classroom Summary The famous fable writer Krylov once made a wonderful metaphor: "Reality is this shore, ideal is the other shore, separated by a spacious river. Action is the bridge across the river." Deduct the professional ideal Door, the important thing is perseverance and struggle. Vocational school students must understand the persistence and arduousness of realizing their career ideals, cherish their study life in school, and lay a solid foundation for realizing their future career ideals.