Li Ming and his wife Mary have been married for 5 years, and they now live in Beijing, which is pretty good.
Li Ming is a considerate husband. He often pays attention to Mary's mood and will take the initiative to help her with some housework to reduce her burden. For example, on weekends, Li Ming would get up early, wash and cook in silence, and then bring breakfast to wake up Mary who was still sleeping and give her a surprise. Seeing Li Ming's gentle smiling face, Mary will feel happy and satisfied in her heart.
Mary is also very concerned about Li Ming's work. She knows that Li Ming is under great pressure in the workplace and always works overtime until very late. Mary will carefully prepare supper and then call Li Ming to tell him to go home early and rest. After receiving his wife's concern, Li Ming felt warm in his heart, and his love for Mary arose spontaneously.
The two would go for walks in the park, go on movie dates, or simply go shopping in the supermarket together on weekends, and they felt very happy. Li Ming likes to make Mary laugh and watch her beam with joy. Mary also often sings to make Li Ming happy. When the two of them were together, the air around them seemed to become sweeter.
Even a dull life, with the company of love, will make people feel extremely satisfied and happy. Li Ming and Mary are this kind of ordinary couple born out of true feelings.
Both Li Ming and Mary value emotional communication between husband and wife. They would set aside one night a week to turn off the TV and cell phones, sit face to face and chat together.
Li Ming will first ask Mary what happy or sad things she has encountered recently, and Mary will truthfully share every detail of her work with Li Ming. Mary is shy and introverted, and was not good at expressing her thoughts at first, but under Li Ming's patient listening, she gradually opened her heart. Mary will talk about her considerations about future planning and some ideas about her children's education. Li Ming smiled and nodded, holding Mary's hand from time to time to provide support.
Afterwards, the two would switch places and Li Ming would tell what he had been thinking and feeling recently. Li Ming would talk about the difficulties he encountered at work or the troubles he encountered in workplace relationships. Mary will also listen patiently and encourage her just like Li Ming did to her. She would remind Li Ming to learn to relax. Work is just a part of life and is not worth consuming too much energy. After Li Ming heard this, he would hug Mary gratefully.
Through continuous communication, Li Ming and Mary understand each other more and more, and have a deeper sense of identification with each other's lives. This mutual understanding and support has become the most solid foundation among them.
Both Li Ming and Mary enjoy close physical contact, which can shorten the distance between them and enhance their sense of intimacy.
Li Ming likes to hug Mary gently from behind and rest his chin on Mary's shoulder. Feeling her husband's hug, Mary couldn't help but smile knowingly, and then gently touched the back of Li Ming's hand. Li Ming also likes to comb Mary's hair after she gets up. He will carefully help Mary braid her long hair into beautiful braids. Mary felt that she was being cared for by Li Ming, and her heart felt sweet.
When the two of them watch TV together, Mary will take the initiative to lean into Li Ming's arms. Li Ming would put one arm around Mary and put the other hand gently on her waist. Leaning against Li Ming's generous chest and listening to his steady heartbeat, Mary felt extremely at ease. Li Ming also liked this intimate gesture, his eyes were soft and affectionate.
Usually when the two of them go out shopping, they often interlock with each other. Feeling the warmth of each other's palms, they both felt each other's love without saying anything. These daily small intimate contacts have become the sweetest spice in their relationship.
Mary has a sensitive personality and sometimes gets depressed because of little things. Faced with his wife's negative emotions, Li Ming always provides careful support.
Once, Mary performed at the company's annual meeting, but something went wrong and her performance failed. Mary cried when she got home. She felt that she had let everyone down and was a useless person.
Seeing his wife's sad look, Li Ming immediately went over to hug Mary and comforted her softly. He told Mary that it was not her fault at all, but the company's lack of preparation was the real cause. He also gently reminded Mary that she will inevitably encounter some setbacks in life, and the important thing is to maintain confidence and optimism and keep moving forward.
Under Li Ming's comfort, Mary gradually stopped crying. She was moved by her husband's thoughtfulness. Li Ming also enlightened Mary that human value is not based on one performance. She is excellent in many other aspects. This failure cannot deny her ability.
Through Li Ming's listening and encouragement, Mary regained her self-confidence. She understands that her husband will always support her and will not look down on her just because of a small setback. This feeling of being understood and trusted became Mary's motivation to get out of the haze.
Before going to bed, Li Ming and Mary had endless topics to talk about. This is a passionate time for two people.
Sometimes Li Ming would chat with Mary about interesting things at work, such as the crazy and funny jokes between colleagues, or the weird temper of his boss. Mary laughs when she listens to it. She thinks Li Ming's way of telling stories is very cute.
Mary will also share with Li Ming the knowledge she has learned in the company, or her excitement when she successfully signs a contract with a client. Li Ming admired Mary's enthusiasm for work. The two of them chatted enthusiastically, and they didn't realize how fast time passed until late at night.
Sometimes the two people will discuss some more in-depth topics, such as the meaning of life or plans for the future. Both Li Ming and Mary will listen carefully to each other's ideas and then add their own insights. This kind of heart-to-heart communication often brings the two people closer and makes them more ideologically consistent.
When talking at night, they seemed to have returned to their original love stage. They could talk about any topic and listened to each other's voices. These nightly conversations became rare romantic moments in Li Ming and Mary's relationship.
Li Ming and Mary both enjoy the fun and satisfaction brought by sex. They will create a warm and romantic atmosphere for each other.
Li Ming often prepares hot water before Mary takes a bath and puts some of Mary's favorite aromatherapy in the bathroom. Then he went into the bathroom and waited. When Mary walked in, Li Ming would go over and help her take off her clothes, then put his arms around her and get into the bathtub together. The two of them interlocked their fingers and leaned together to whisper.
In sex life, Li Ming is always gentle and considerate. He always pays attention to observing Mary's feelings and asks her about her preferences, hoping that both of them can get the maximum pleasure. Mary also responded enthusiastically to Li Ming's love. She liked the love words Li Ming whispered in her ear.
Sometimes, in order to add excitement, they will also play some small games, such as playing in different locations, or Li Ming will blindfold Mary first to increase the fun with the anticipated excitement. But no matter what, Li Ming will make sure Mary feels comfortable and safe.
Through sex, the relationship between Li Ming and Mary becomes closer, and they feel more intimate and satisfied. Even after many years, every intimate moment is like returning to the original honeymoon time, full of passion and sweetness. This physical and mental compatibility is the most beautiful fruit of their relationship.